The best relationship advice I’ve received

Here is the best relationship advice I’ve ever been told.

Stop focusing on finding the perfect person and start becoming that person. The best relationship trick is personal development.

I love this, for 3 main reasons.

One, it shifts the accountability to you. It means that you are responsible for your growth and that you must evolve to attract that which you want.

Two, instead of throwing darts at a board, you become a magnet, attracting like-minded individuals. The better you become, the better the people you attract.

Three, love starts with you. You can’t expect to give someone else the love they want when you cannot love and accept yourself.

By becoming the best version of yourself, you are giving a better partner for all the people you choose to have a relationship with.

Instead of chasing something that isn’t for you, you attract the person you become.

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